Monday, March 7, 2005

Today is the day....

Well, today is the beginning of wee one's week of testing. I offered her whatever she wanted for breakfast and she chose a bagel with cream cheese and oj. She didn't seem nervous at all....which I am thankful for. Yesterday she worked on the online testing site for a while, then I got out the workbooks and chose a page for her to work on. She was NOT happy with me. She grabbed the book, went into her room and slammed the door. When she came back out, she handed me the book and left the room. I had to laugh because after the last question she wrote, "This is the LAST one I am doing because I will have enough of this crap tomorrow!!!!" Well, she told me, didn't she? LOL....I didn't make her do any more. I figured she is as ready as she is going to be, and I don't want to stress her out the day before the real test. Testing lasts for two hours each day, Mon-Thurs. I have to share this tidbit from the newsletter the school sent home on Friday. Oh so typical....(I promise, this is the last I will say on the subject!)

"Testing time is important, but please do not over-emphasize. Putting too much emphasis on test scores can upset a child and may cause excessive worry about doing well. Each day is important in our children's lives. Reassure your child that he or she is doing their best. Praise them for the things they do well. If they feel good about themselves, they will do there best."

Can you believe that sh%#? In other words, please try and undo everything we have put your children through for the past few weeks. Aaarrrggghhhh!

ANYWAY....

The weekend was just gorgeous. Sunny, blue skies, warm breezes....beautiful. Yesterday we went to church and heard a minister from Canton, OH speak. He was absolutely wonderful. Even my husband, who has been known to catch up on his sleep during a sermon, stayed awake and alert through the whole thing. He even mentioned how he enjoyed the service. After church we went home and spent the day doing odds and ends. I cleaned, relaxed, made phone calls, did some sewing. Around 3 my mom came over and picked up John. They were going to pick out a suit for my father. John told me that he wanted to be the one to go with her and help her pick something out....I thought it was really sweet. I have to give my mom credit, she is taking care of business, all the while taking care of my dad. She is such a wonderful and loving wife.

Things are progressing as expected with dad. I am happy to report, however, that he did say hi to me yesterday! My mom held the phone to him and said, "Honey, Sherry is on the phone. Do you want to say hi?" and he said in his gravely voice, "Hi Sherry." It was slow and hard to understand, but I heard him!

Today I am spending the day cleaning. I know some people think I am crazy with all my dusting and mopping....but for me, the act of cleaning is theraputic to me. I feel so calm and happy when I am doing it. I love the look and feel of a freshly cleaned room, or an organized closet. It calms my soul. And you know what they say cleanliness is next to!!!!

13 comments:

Anonymous said...

Good luck to Wee One this week!

Anonymous said...

GOOD LUCK WEE ONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Yes sounds like your mom is doing wonderfully. They say hte hardest is likea  week after a loved one is gone and life is going on and you dont have busy stuff to do. YES that was sweet of JOhn. I m sojealous We had 50's and sunny but the wind was so sharp and 20
s that it felt like 20
s outside. This is the 3 weird eyar  we have had weather wise and I am ready to move. NEVER in my life have i been so ready to head south. !!!!!!!!  Cleaning for me a an outlet too. SO I totally understand. Neverous energy. Where we attend people get up and move freely during the service and get drinks of coffee pop or water and things. Some stand in a corner some sit some have even been known to go walking outside!!!!!!!!! Its a beautiful place out there. I love it. each week a man or one of the men take turns talking and others get up and speak freely. Yet even withthat I have been known to lay my head on hubbys arm and nap!!!!!!!!! LOL Lori

Anonymous said...

Interesting letter they sent home.  Oh well...I hope that Wee One is able to relax and do her best...which I'm sure she will do awesome!
How nice of John to help your mother.  It probably makes it much easier for her.  
Have fun cleaning!  As if you need to be told that! lol
Micheyle
http://journals.aol.com/mommysquiettime/RedFlannelPajamas

Anonymous said...

GOD! : )

Anonymous said...

My son also started his tests this week....he asked for sausage and scrambled eggs  : )    My heart and prayers go out to you and your family...my mom is battling a terminal illness and I know how difficult it is. Also, I added you to my favorite journals on my journal...I don't comment often...but I have been reading yours for about a year?? or so now....if you want me to take it off...just let me know   : )
Tracie

Anonymous said...

LOL....oops...I put  your link under my name...here is my link...
http://journals.aol.com/piperacharmed1/WELCOMETOMYLIFE/........not even sure how I messed that one up!
Tracie

Anonymous said...

Sounds like Wee One is very prepared!  I wish her all the luck in the world...  And what the school said...OMG!!  Funny how they ALWAYS take the pressure off of themselves.  
Prayers for your Dad...and God bless your Mom's heart.  
*hugs*

Anonymous said...

Wee One will do great!
{{{{Sherry and Family}}}} Such a hard time.

Anonymous said...

That school sytem is just unbelievable Sherry.What will they make the kids do during the times they are not testing?How sweet of John to want to pick out a suit for your dad.Hugs to all you.KIM

Anonymous said...

Your school system is just too funny isn't it?!  Now they want the child to be calm!  Yea right!  Uggghhh!  I am sure Wee One will be just fine though!  You are one cleaning fool!!  I am so glad you aren't my neighbor.  You would make me look baaaaaad.  :)
Hugs and love, Lisa

Anonymous said...

lol your school system sounds similiar to ours in respect to those letters. My kids start those tests next month, argh! Good luck to wee one, she'll do great :)
Thats wonderful that your dad said hi to you, I know how much that means to you. Continued prayers and hugs!

Gretchen
http://livinginsavannah.blogspot.com/

Anonymous said...

I know I am late...been busy around here...  But I hope Wee One does WONDERFULLY on all her tests.  My dad is a teacher in GA and was my teacher when I went to high school and he always just told me to do my best and that was all that I could do.  I know Wee One will do just fine on her tests.  School systems shouldn't put so much into just ONE set of tests.  Because we all have our bad days and what if it happens to occur on that one or two days of testing!?!?!  Then what!?!?!  Oh well...I don't want to get on my soap box!!!*~*Emily

Anonymous said...

I just started reading your blog.  I'm in Florida too and just had one son finish the FCATS last week.  Huge sigh of relief.  I didn't know there was an online place to practice the test.  Well, good to know for next year.  Yes I got that letter too.  Just wanted to smack somebody.

Big O.