Hmmmm, I put "Saturday" in the search box at animationfactory.com and this is what came up. I wasn't sure what it was until I read the title which was "Saturday Night Hampster Fever". Who knew....I thought it was a mouse!
As you can see from the pics, wee one did a great job on both her spelling and science vocabulary test! She was so happy when she brought those home to show me. She also said that the actual science chapter test they had taken that day went very well and she thinks she got an A.
Right now I can hear her in her sister's room laughing and singing. They have been in there for hours. Betsy has to paint the pot that she made in ceramics over the weekend, as it is due on Monday. She did a great job too....I'll take a pic of it when she is finished. It's a short, squatty pot but it was supposed to be taller with a longer neck. I can't help but laugh every time I see it because my daughter, who can ace a geometry test and get through chemistry barely cracking a book, had to stay after school because she couldn't get the hang of making a clay pot! She laughs about it too....I'm not being mean! LOL. She said she had to start it over a few times because the neck kept breaking.
Today the girls went downtown to a big library book sale. My aunt took them in her brand spankin new Subaru....when she came in she said, "I'm letting Betsy drive!" Now, a million thoughts came into my head at this point like....ARE YOU NUTS? and, well, ARE YOU NUTS? Betsy has driven once with my husband, twice with my sister (although I did not know this!), and once with me. All the previous excursions have been on side streets and in mild traffic. Today she was to drive downtown, in Saturday traffic, across a HUGE bridge.
Here's the bridge....so, you can see why I was a bit nervous! My aunt said, "Do you think she can drive over a bridge? Or should we stop and switch drivers before we get there?" I said, oh, I think stopping would be a good idea. Betsy heard this and said, "Awwwww!" so my aunt says, "Well, we will keep going until I get scared!" LOLOL....then she says, "Don't worry, I have airbags." LOLOL....kind of....
Anyway, they made it there, and Betsy drove the entire way! She said it was "cool" driving over the bridge. Wee one said, "Don't worry mom, she did good. I mean, I wasn't even nervous this time!" Sheesh. They had a great time, buying books and then going out to lunch.
John and I used the time to take a motorcycle ride over to my parents house. The day was just perfect for a ride....62 degrees and not a cloud in the sky. There was a slight breeze as well. It just felt so good to get out and ride....it's so freeing. We visited for an hour and today was the first time I have cried. I couldn't help it....I have been trying to be so strong for my mom and dad. I've done a great job up until now....but today was different. I have watched my dad go from a slurring kind of talk, to a quiet voice, to barely a word here and there. Lately it's been a combination of one word answers and hand squeezing. But today....I asked him questions and talked to him, held his hand and there was no response. Just those silent eyes staring ahead. It hit me, like a ton of bricks, that I will never hear my father speak to me again. I stood with his hand in mine and cried. I think I spooked John when he realized how upset I was. But....I got a handle on it. I went to the bathroom, dried the tears and came out smiling. By that time mom was in the room and was trying to talk to him. She asked me to hold his hand and tell him to squeeze my hand for yes. He didn't respond to anything until I said, "Well gee dad....how about....do you love me?" You know what he did? He raised his eyebrows as high as he could. I just laughed and said, "Dad, I'm taking that as a yes!" (Thank you God....I needed that!)
We have been vegging out for most of the evening since then. I actually just got up from the couch and came in here....what a lazy butt! LOL....I've been so tired lately. I'm going tohave to get the dog to the vet on Monday. Can dogs get pink eye? I tell ya, Percy's eye is definately pink and he's got some interesting stuff collecting in the corner....I've been putting warm cloths on it and keeping it as clean as I can until I can get him in. Jeez....that dog is getting more expensive with age! I've got a hair appointment on Tuesday and who knows what else will pop up. That's okay though, I do better when I'm busy!
OKay.....I'm off to fold some clothes and, well, sit on my butt again probably! Have a great Saturday!
17 comments:
I'm so sorry about your Dad. I lost my Father over a year ago and it was very sudden and unexpected. What a great gift you have being able to let each other know how you feel. But such sadness watching him disappear before your very eyes. Your family is in my prayers. Pamela
WTG Wee One!!! YAY! I am so proud of you!! I hope she is feeling much better now...
I am so sorry to hear about your Dad. I know how tough it is watching them slowly disappear. And it's the little moments that you had today that help you stay strong...as strong as you can. It's okay to cry...you have to let it go...whether it be with John or by yourself...you need that release. We are all praying for you over here...
Hang in there, I know it's tough.
Your in our thoughts.
(((hugs)))
That was the biggest "I love you!" I have ever heard of.
WTG Haley and wow Betsy did the bridge? You tell that girl that Kara from the journals has never had the guts to do a bridge ever! That's why I can't drive into NYC. LOL I'm so proud of both your kids. LOL
And Haley is beautiful. She looks like sleeping beauty. Not nerdy at all.
Yikes!! THAT BRIDGE? Kudos to Betsy, and more to Janice LOL
OMG! I wouldn't even have crossed that bridge after I had been driving TEN years, nevermind a new driver! YIKES! CONGRATS to Wee One on getting those good grades! Woo-hoo!!! Glad they had a good time with their Aunty. Wish I had a cool aunt like that! I'm also happy to hear that you went out with your hubby and took a ride. I can hear the pain in your sentences about your father and I wish I could offer some wonderful words of comfort, but I am at a loss for what would be the best thing to say. What your entire family and your father are going through must be so hard. But, like you said, you are all strong, you will get through this. Gee, and I thought I had nothing to say. Hmmmm
Hugs and love, Lisa
(((((((((((((Sherry)))))))))))) I'm glad that things are going ok for you, and WOO on Betsy driving! YAY! I'll continue to keep your dad in my prayers!
Hugs,
Heather
Good Job to Betsy!
And yes, Wee One is very beautiful. Awesome that she got A+'s. But, I want you to tell her teachers that a paper with an A+ should not have so much red written on it! LOL When they mark right answers so that they know it's right, they should do it lightly with a pencil. That way the paper looks nice and clean and perfect, the way an A+ paper should! LOL That's just my opinion!!
I was very moved reading about your dad's response to you asking if he loves you. I'm so glad that happened. You and your family are still in my thoughts and prayers.
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Good job besty I would never attempt a brifge like that she is brave practice she needs thats good, Wee one looks so pretty cute pics glad she did good on the test
I am thinking so often of your father and your family. Isn't life bittersweet? -- one person reaching the end and one starting new adventures, all at once in the same family.
Yay for wee-one.Good for her.That picture of the bridge looks a bit scary.I would have never tried driving on it when I was her age.Good for her.And as for you dad,I cant imagine how hard it is to be going through this Sherry.I think about all of you every day and pray for you guys.Hugs and love to you.KIM
yes wee one is pretty and she looks like you. Hey I like that house in the corner behind her can I move there with you and your 62 degrees?????????? I m jealous wiht sun too!!!!!!! Cant wait to see the ceramic pot. Im sorry about your dad. I remember watching my grandmother as she slipped further and futher into alshiemers. It aws horrid. Then the last Haunkkah she was here she after not talking or responding she laughed at a joke as if she actually grasped it was a joke. THen six months later in june she was inhospital I had heard dolls were good therapy for them. I bought her one and she gave it to her and asked her what do you want t name your baby. She looked at me clear as abell and said BILL!!!!!!!!!!! Bill is her son who died at 30 of alcoholizm. God does know when to give us just what we need when we need it. She died in august and was the reason for me starting my journal. I started my journal on the first day they opend them to share about her. She died aug 1It was peaceful and now I know she si talking and laughing and with Bill. Lori
Yay for Wee One on her tests!!!! It must be so hard watchign your father decline. What an exhausting, stressful time for your family. {{{}}}
Yes, dogs can get pink eye.
Congrats to wee one on those great grades :)
It still gives me the shudders to think that Caitlin will be driving in a couple of years! lol
You definately need moments to cry, your a very strong person but you have to let it out. Hugs and prayers!
Gretchen
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Wahoo, onthose test scores, and that driving, good going! Seeing your Dad was certainly poignant. I am thinking about you. Cya, Kris
\o/ yay to wee one on her brilliant scores. I love the saturday night fever hamster, he is so cute :)........Jules xxxxxx
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hi,nuttin, i am mary freeman. i just happened upon your journal. i can feel the love for your family. i can really sympathize with you, as my Mom has alzheimers. she is 90 years old. she had lived with me since 1978 until feb. of 2004. the dr. said she had to have around the clock care, so she is in a nursing home. they really love her there. she doesn't know me anymore. when i go to visit, i cry when i have to leave. it seems i cry about everything these days. i pray God will bless you in your time of sorrow. my email address is: flyhy2@aol.com.
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