I am also going to be cleaning, turning off computers, deciding which lights to leave on. Should I leave a tv on for sound? My dad always used to leave a radio on if we were going to be gone for a while, so that any burglars in the neighborhood would think we were in there talking and singing. LOL. I've already given the dog his bath as well as his eye drops, ear drops and both sets of pills....I'm wet and hairy right now....lol. I've got the bathtub soaking in scrubbing bubbles ("we do the work so you don't have toooooooooooooo"....I can't think of that slogan without hearing Joe Dirt saying it! lol), so that it is sparkling clean. I also washed the sheets and am moving on to the throw rugs. I know, I know....why? Heck, I don't know.
I managed to find a few pair of jeans that used to be Betsy's that fit wee one....so she is set on clothes. I am going to wash the winter coats too, so they have that "fresh from the dryer" smell for the girls.
I talked to mom last night and she was at her hotel with my sisters and my dad's cousin. They were talking about old times and relaxing. I hope things went well for mom and that she wasn't too emotional. This morning John will be chauffeuring them to the funeral home to make final arrangements. You know, I am glad I don't have to be there for that. I need someone else to take some of the stress for a while....I don't mean that in a bad way at all....I just need to regroup.
Well, the bubbles have probably done all the scrubbing they are going to dofor me by now....so I had better get in there and finish up....
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I need you around my house! I never do any cleaning "just because"! Anyway I hope you have a safe trip. Looking forward to you getting back and entertaining me with your daily rants and raves. Take care and God bless. ..:Barbara:..
OHI so hope ou get this before you turn your pc off. I sure will miss you while your gone. I tell you Ireally do enjoy reading your journal daily. Hey I m like you I Love to come to a house that looks as if it was just cleaned. I like waking up to a clean house. That is hard to do though. either some get up at night or it gets messed in the morning. I knowyou will have some good tiems and laughs while gone but I also know that you will have many sad times. I just have to tell you that its been a very draining time running and around and being busy. But I also know that its good to keep your mind busy now. So glad your husband is pitching in. I know you dont need to be too overhwhelmed. We will miss you guys and pray for you all. though it sounds like percy will be in great hands. So he is living in the lap of luxury for sure. But I know you guys will need prayer for safe travles and comfort from GOD. {{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}} and look forward to your return. Lori.
My prayers will be with you as you make your journey to lay your dear Father to rest. Go with God. Peace be with you.
God Bless.
TiasNme2
Sherry take care of yourself! John is a sweetie to be helping out so much.
I'm glad you have the bubbles and your husband to help you :-) I'm praying for all of you. Are your girls doing ok? Pamela
Have a safe trip. I would not recommend leaving a television on, I think it is a fire hazard. In fact, I would unplug tvs, computers, etc. in case of a power surge. However, it does not hurt to leave a radio on. I would use a portable, plug-in type and make sure it is somewhere that is safe (no fabric or combustibles around). Can you tell I am paranoid? LOL! Take care of yourself.
I am going to miss you and hope you all have a safe journey. I am so pleased you have the support of hubby and know he will be a tower of strength for you. It is a sad sad time and will be an emotional roller coaster but all your friends are here if you need us, especially me. Take care and god bless......Jules xxxxxxxxx
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(((Sherry))) It is a very stressful and difficult time for all of you. Sounds like you are holding it all together very well. I hope you have a very safe trip. Prayers for your family...
*hugs*
As your friend I am also glad that you don't have to deal with the funeral arrangements. That's really hard, I had to do it with my dad and it was awful for me.
Fresh from the dryer clothes ...ahhh you are a good mommy.
I wish you didn't announce to the world you wouldn't be home though. Sorry, I'm annoying I know but it's the mother in me.
I'm glad your Mom has family around her cheering her up. That's really important. Please don't forget to check in with me.
Did I ever tell you how special I think John is? Well, I do. He is a wonderful man and an even more wonderful husband. :) I am sure the critters in your woods will be plenty happy with the Sherry toss overs! Heck, I think most people would be happy nevermind animals! LOL!
Hugs and love, Lisa
Hello there, I'm Lori! Thought I would just say that I too am sorry for your recent loss.
This is my first time to you blog. I entry reading your entries and LOVE your graphics. (Dare I ask where you got them?)
Anyhow, just wanted to say hello and introduce myself. I too, am a stay at home mother so I was really interested in your blog when I came across it.
Have a safe trip!
Lori
Opps sorry, below I meant to say I ENJOY reading your journal...
Lori
(((((Sherry))))) (((((John))))). I'll be thinking of you on your trip. Wish it was better circumstances.
Monica
I will be praying for you and your family. The funeral will be very hard and saying your final goodbye will be also but as much as it hurts you will feel him with you forever and the pain is replaced with happy feelings and memories in time. when all is over and everyone has stopped calling your mother keep intouch with her on a daily bases if possible. She will have many sad, mad and a range of emotions ahead of her. don't be surprises at any of her moods and tell her to not make any major decisons for at least a year if possible. listen to her no matter how many times she repeats a story. don't be afraid to mention his name for the rest of her life it will always be music to her ears. they also told me to not get rid of his things to fast that's the biggest mistake griefing people do is that and then regret it later. God bless you. I would love to hear about what you say at the funeral when you feel like sharing. do not block the flow of tear it's very good for you to release the tention and emotions.
We all handle things differently and need time to think and regroup. Its so hard to have to say goodbye and you will all be in my thoughts and prayers. Have a very safe trip.
My dad use to leave the radio on too when we were going to be gone for awhile Ü
Hugs,
Gretchen
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I know these next couple of days will be hard for you. You're in my prayers!
Hugs,
Heather
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I now its hard for you sorry to hear of your loss Take a moment and reflect and relax a few minutes to renew yourself always in my prayers blowing though here saying hello
I so, so sympathize with you. Lost my dad almost three years ago, and it is still hard. A very good friend told me to take good care of my mom, that in her experience it would completely hit her in about three months. I shared that with my mom, and two months after my dad died she called to say that that is what had happened. She'd gotten something in the mail, insurance policy or something, that just had her name on it (for the first time in over 55 years!), and she sat down in the middle of her bed and just lost it. After that the days were much easier for her. It may not be the same for your mom, but just thought I'd share that with you. Glad you have a lot of family. That makes it much easier. Hope you have a safe trip and enjoy the time with your family.
Lori
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