I was up this morning at 4 am because my nose was stuffy, and I couldn't sleep. As I was sitting here surfing the web, I thought to myself, "It figures, I can't sleep....now watch me go back to bed and sleep past the alarm clock." Uh huh, you guessed it. My eyes popped open at 7:18, which left me a grand total of 25 minutes to get wee one up, dressed, fed, coiffed, and to the bus stop. I didn't have time to make her lunch, so she is buying (I have no idea what is on the menu today), and we couldn't find her sunglasses that were set out last night for "shades day" at school. I sent her wtih a pair of John's....and I PRAY they arrive home in one piece. (I didn't trust her with mine....I have this "thing" about sunglasses, but I'll save that for another entry....lol). We did a good job getting to the bus stop on time and she left me with a smile on her face. Whew!
One of the reasons I slept in was that I usually drive Betsy to her bus stop after 6 am every day....but since she is sick, she wasn't up and I wasn't forced awake. I made a doctor's appointment for her tonight, in advance, after 5 pm in order to accommodate her after school poetry club, of which she is president. I was quite proud of myself for doing so, and when I told her she says, "You couldn't have gotten it any earlier? I mean, I really don't feel well." I said, "But you have poetry club! You are the PRESIDENT, you need to be there!" (She had made a big deal of this when I was threatening her being grounded on poetry day, she absolutely couldn't miss....) and she says to me, "Oh, don't worry about it. E will be there and she is vice president. No biggie." WTH? You can bet I will remember this....
Dh isn't feeling too well. He has the sniffles and his back hurts. Now, I have a bulging disk which, when it flares up feels like someone is sticking a knife in my hip, and it is literally excruciating to stand up straight. However, the house somehow gets clean, dinner made, wash done....you see where this is going? Last night he whined about homework, whined about being tired, whined about his nose being stuffy, and was dropping hints that a back rub would be nice. Excuse me? I could be lying face down on the bed, trying to rub my OWN back and he would pass by saying "What are you doing? You look silly." This is the man who, when I need someone to rub ben gay on me will not want to do it because it "smells funny and bothers me". Guess what? He didn't get a back rub....and he got his own dang tissues.
Today I have a million things to do. I have to sew, and then dh says to be sure to get the chemicals so we can close up the pool. This right after the reminder that they really need those straps at work. Okay, which would you like done, because I can't do both! I also have to take Bets to the dr., of course that is tonight. Oh! And wee one is going to a fall fun fest at her friend's church tonight, which means after I dress her in her costume she will leave, and he gets the house to himself while I'm at the dr's. I am thinking tonight's dinner is not going to be the roasted autumn chicken with homemade mashed potatoes and gravy that I had originally planned. No, I think a "find what you can" night is in order.
BTW, I do love my dh. I had not planned on this being an entry devoted to my complaints....but ya know, sometimes things just turn out that way!
Have a good one....
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Sorry to hear you are feeling sniffely. and hey I was very glad to know I wasn't the only one venting in jland. sometimes we have to. It is way better than blowing up at them over stupid stuff.
have a gr8 day hope you gets lots of your stuff done.
You just had a bad start to a bad day that does not sound be giving you a break. Its OKAY to complain. It really really is. I dont blame you. My hub will rub my back if I ask him He does try to help out there. may not be as long as I like it. Ofcourse the best back rubs come when he wants something LOL you know men. Its really okay to vent it really is. You have alot to do today. I dont blame you for being abit cranky. I m hoping today to ONLY work on ME things well semi me. Like only have ot leave to take Rachael to work Tracy picks her up. YIPPEEEE but Im going to finish my bed spread set. I am so very very ready to get my kitchn table cleaned up. I need it out of my face that its done and over with. So I can start on my gifts for friends. Lori
You definitely need more than 24 hours in a day with all the things you fit in. I hate oversleeping and having to rush, so well done on getting wee one there on time. Hope Betsy feels better soon and the Dr manages to give ther something to get rid of whatever it is making her poorly.
p.s., it's nice to have a vent every now and then. :)..........Jules xxx
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Hope your family gets well and starts feeling better soon. Maybe you could call the DR. and get Betsy and earlier appt. since she's not going to school.
I know that "hubby story" all to well!! I would have done the same thing in my journal just last week...but his Mom reads me daily!! I have to watch what I say!!! LOL
Good luck at the doctor with Betsy!! I hope everything goes okay!!
Hope you have a stress free day..... I hope....
*hugs*
I have gotten one back rub in 4 or 5 years from him. I know just how you feel and he is always pulling up his shirt and turning around asking me to scratch his back. Ouch with that bulging disc. Maybe have weeone rub the bengay on it. Everyone has the right to complain...don't sweat it. I do it daily!
::shaking head in amazment:: HOW do you do it all?!?
Monica
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I've had days like this. This week Angelin is having some theme a day.. to say No to drugs week or something. I guess they feel like the kids need to look like they are on drugs to participate. (IE CRAZY SOCK DAY)
Let's do lunch!
~Jaime
FINALLY! An entry that shows you are in a "normal" marriage! PHEW! I was beginning to think you were over there having the perfect marriage or something, never complaining, never a bad word about hubby. LOL! Good to know that you sometimes feel the same way as we all do about our hubbies from day to day! Hope everyone in the house feels better soon! :)
Hugs and love, Lisa
You are so right about the husband! They always whine so much more than women.
Wow at getting wee-one to the bus stop in such short time, that's good. LOL ~Melissa
oh yes we have to be able to handle a million and one things!
I hope your day went well and take a nice calgon bath tonight :)
ain't life grand LOL?
Well, sounds like you could use some pampering at a spa or something... I'd sure add that to my Christmas wish list if I were you!
Hugs,
Erin
I am glad I have not came across no colds hope you are feeling better soon
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