Friday, October 22, 2004

Friday....haircut day....yippee

Yesterday I called and made myself a hair appointment....I really need it. I'm at the point where my style has just given up. I washed, conditioned, moussed, blew dry....and it still just laid there like a bump on a log. It had given up. The layers are too long and out of shape, the ends are beginning to split....you know the drill. So today, Anna will be breathing some life into this tired do. I usually go to Dee, but she won't give me a razor cut, and when I ask her to just "trim" the ends, I end up walking out of the salon with much less hair than I came with. However, Dee does an awesome job on color, so I suppose I will continue to go back and forth. Anna is a master with the razor, and does exactly what I ask. That shop is closer to my house too, which is always nice. And they have this lovely British receptionist, which adds to the whole ambiance of the place....

I am not doing well with my procrastination. Here's an example: for 4 weeks now, my answering machine light has been flickering. This means, according to the owners manual, that the backup battery is low, and needs to be changed. It takes one nine volt. I have yet to change it, even though I am irritated by the flashing. Every time I walk into the room, I think there is a message. And if there is one, it will do the "change my bettery flash", followed by a longer blink of the light. This means, I have to stand there for a few moments, to see if there is only one flash or a flash and a blink. I went so far as to get the battery out of the drawer, and place it next to the machine, in hopes someone (dh) would get the hint and change it. It's been sitting ther for a week. I will probably have to dust it today. Now, why I ask you, will I not just change the dang thing? I don't know. Procrastination is an ugly thing....

I actually walked wee one to the bus stop today. I've been so lazy this year. I drive her every morning, and sit unsociably in the drivers seat, talking to wee one. Sometimes I read while she draws or plays a hand held game....but today I walked with her. She rodeher bike and had a grand time petting the new puppy that her friend's brother got. I stood amongst the parents, listening to others talk and enjoying the cool-ish morning. However, on the way home, I made a point to hang back a bit, as "let me tell you all about my horrid marriage and sex life" mom walked ahead of me. She managed to get me the other day, as we were walking home from picking up the kids. She asked me one little question, which I answered....and that turned into a thirty minute discussion on adhd, family therapy and the likes. I just kept nodding my head and saying "yeah", as I was feeling a bit uncomfortable listening to her spill all her private family secrets. What is up with that? I feel sorry for her, because I know her life is not wonderful, but at the same time, I am not a therapist! Don't get me wrong, if she were really upset, and asked if sometime she could talk to me, or wanted to get together, I'd understand. But it's like, you are a sahm, so you must have all the time in the world, come here and let me tell you all my problems, and you listen....but don't interrupt me! Sheesh!

Okay, it's time for me to get my butt in gear, and start cleaning. Oh! Yesterday I was trying to figure out how to type an entry with a background....but I deleted it. I didn't realize the entry alert would go out....sorry! It did work though. I'll have to try it again....have a great Friday!

13 comments:

Anonymous said...

ahh I was wondering what in the world happend when I tried to come read the entry you posted and it wasnt there LOL Glad I am not flipping out cuase I was thinking that lOL Oh man I try my best to stay out of the chatter of other moms. Hubby comes in after Dance class and there I am standing off in a corner reading a pampered chef book (OH GOD OF ALL THINGS how many times can I flip thru that book till its time to call it quits) and he looks over at me comes over he knows the drill his wife is anit social and loves it that way LOL Oh give me break I dont wanna smile that fake smile and nod and say yeah Oh Im sorry or thats great when my mind is really like its 8:30 at night Just let me get outta here !!!!!!!!!!!   I know Im sad!!!!!!! Just sad!!!!!!!!! I should be nicer shouldnt I? Now procrastinating on that battery. WELL why not  just say SLAVE daughter replace the battery!!!!!!!! isnt that what we had them for. LOL seriously I did fix that problem I have a 16 year old most messages are from her friends. (yes we homeschool but my girls have friends LOL) So put the answering machine in her room. Not only does she have to replace the battery sinceits in her room and I dont see it and it only bothers her. BUT she makes a great secretary sorting out the calls and giving me and hubby any messages that might come our way!!!!!!! LOL You see her anti social mom has no friends!!!!!!! LOL Have a great day. Im sure your hair looks great no matter what. Lori

Anonymous said...

Happy Haircut Day!!!!!!! I hope you love the results and share the pictures with us! Have an awesome Friday! Kim :-)

Anonymous said...

Make sure you add pic's of the new do!!

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Anonymous said...

LOL, I've had to walk the loonngg walk listening to someone on the way back from the bus stop.  I never understand it either.  I would never tell someone my problems like that!   I'm so happy we are no longer talking (it's the crappy neighbor).  
I hope your hair turns out just like you want it :)~Melissa

Anonymous said...

Have a nice haircut and afterwards wanna come over so I can complain about my sex life to you?  Hehehe

Anonymous said...

Enjoy your "hair" day and hope it turns out the way you like it. Hugs Lanny

Anonymous said...

That lady sounds so annoying and you sound like me with the nodding. I do that to everyone ...every single person. I'm so mean. I don't think you procrastinate at all. I think you are a cleaning working maniac and you do have a side job. You amaze me.

Anonymous said...

It took me a while to figure out what you meant when you said you were a SAHM..........at first I thought it  meant you were deficient in some way, and it frightened me, then  I thought if there was really something wrong I would probably know.  I mean it sounds like ADD or something like that then I figured it out.........stay at home mom............when you are finished with dinner dishes tnight, I was wondering if you could come by so I could dump my problems on you LOL  

Anonymous said...

I hope you enjoyed your hair day!!  Are you doing a before and after??
I avoid the moms at Josh's school at all cost...they are some strange ones...
have a great Friday!!
*hugs*

Anonymous said...

Well, it's the end of the day and I'm hoping that battery has been changed by now.  If not, you'll know you're turning into ME!!!  I hope you all have a nice weekend.  I can't stand listening to someone talk about their problems.  You should tell her to start up a journal!

Anonymous said...

I hate people who just spill their guts all over you without asking if you want to listen. It's awful isn't it! Hope the haircut goes well.

Anonymous said...

I can't figure out how to put in the background thing either, even though Jennifer (xzsaporated) has emailed instructions to me that sounded simple!  Here's an idea, send that sahm who drives you insane to your fomer hairdresser and there should could spill her guts out to her while getting her hair cut!  Afterall, hairdressers have to listen to it ALL day long and they have this really neat ability to not really listen and insert the "uh-huh's" and "yeahs" where appropriate.  Hee-hee!  Hope your hair came out great, but I am sure it did!
Hugs and love, Lisa

Anonymous said...

How'd the do come out????? How is Betsy feeling?