Saturday, October 8, 2005

Getting back to "normal"....

I thought I'd share a few pics of some of the things we have gotten in rememberance of Percy boy. I still am in amazement at all of the wonderful and kind words from all of my friends....what a wonderful community we all belong to!

Things are getting back to normal. Of course, there is the occasional thought that we forgot to let the dog out, or did anyone give him his medicine....I suppose that will last for a while. The house is cleaned out now....food is gone, medicine thrown away, shampoo down the drain. I did keep his chain, his leash, and a little snip of hair from his ear....I used to love to feel the fur on his ear....it was softer there than anyplace on him. I admit, I have sniffed it once or twice, just to remember. I am going to get a locket and put it in there to have forever.

In other news....

Wee one is spending the night at my aunt's house. They went to the springs today, then to St. Augustine for shopping and dinner. She told me that at the springs she was feeding the fish, and when she would stand still and wiggle her toes or fingers, the fish would nibble on them. She said that she did that for an hour, but then had to leave her "little fishy friends". I asked her where they ate and she said at a British Pub in St. A. It's a new place and she had "cottage pie". I asked her how it was and she said, "Oohhhhh man, it was delicious!" They had coffee ice cream for desert and then went shopping. She said she got some sort of big spider that has bendable legs, and wore it around the town. People were calling her spider woman. LOL. I will take a pic of that tomorrow.  I'm not sure what the plan for tonight or tomorrow morning is, but I am sure it will involve sitting in the sauna that my uncle built (I know, who needs a sauna in Florida?!), and grinding wheat for flour to make pancakes in the morning. (My aunt is one of those "natural" gals. No hydroginated oil for her!) I'm sure they will have a great time, and wee one will not want to come home to do the homework she saved for the last minute.

Betsy decided to color her hair for the month of October. It is a lovely shadeof....black. I hate it. She got the kind that washes out in 20-something washes....but I'm praying it won't take that long. She was insistant that she was going to do it, and I told her I didn't think she would be happy. She adopted the typical teenage 'tude, and did it anyway. And guess what? Mom was right....she looks like:

a. Morticia Addams
b. Elvira
c. Lily Munster
d. The sister from The Incredibles
e. All of the above

If you answered "e" you are correct. I was going to forbid it, but then I thought, what would Dr. Phil say? Pick your battles. This one wasn't worth a fight....and I won anyway, being that she didn't like it. So, it all worked out....lol.

We went to my mom's new condo this morning and helped her paint. We painted the entire living room, and John put up a new light fixture, ceiling fan and curtain rod. It really is amazing what paint can do....it looks wonderful. I think she is happy with her new home. My sister and her husband are here until Friday, which is nice for mom. This way she can ease into her first home she has ever owned without my dad. I know it's hard for her, but having my sister stay with her has made it easier.

John, Betsy and I went to church tonight, and then to dinner. It was strange being without wee one, but I think that Betsy secretly enjoyed it. LOL. No matter how old your kids get, they still like that one on one time with mom and dad. She even hugged me a few times tonight. (Sorry Bets, your secret is out....you do love me! LOL).

Okay, I'm going to get ready for bed....I'm exhausted. And thirsty. I had breakfast for dinner at the restaurant and the bacon was really salty. Mmmmmm, pork products!

20 comments:

Anonymous said...

I'm glad that you guys are getting back to normal.
I think it's great that you kept a lock of Percy's hair.
That doggie was so loved:)

I can't see the pics you posted here.
Is it just me?
Oh well...

Have a nice Sunday.
Huggs n prayers to you and your family and Percy too.
Niki

Anonymous said...

What a wonderful way to remember Percy. I love the hair in the locket idea. Wee one sounds to be having a great time and see moms are almost always right! My mom told me the same thing about dying my hair red one year and sure enough I about went bald trying to go back to blonde.  Yummy Pork! hehehe

Anonymous said...

I love that idea with a locket with his fur...you always think of the best ideas.

Anonymous said...

Very sweet gifts. And sweet you sniffed the ear fur. aweeeeeeeeeeeee

As for Betsy....I can't believe she did that with her freckles...no no black don't match those freckles. I think she'd be a perfect redhead but I love red hair so what else would I say? LOL bright red betsy! do it! LOL
but if you must know all through 9th grade i died my hair dark brown, close to black so that I would look like joan jett!

Mmmm breakfast for dinner!

and paint rules. I just went and bought a whole bunch of it tonight.

Glad your mom isn't alone. she has some wonderful children. Wish all moms were that lucky

Anonymous said...

Awwww at all the wonderful Percy gifts you received.  I think that is so sweet that you kept some of his ear hair.  I love that part of my dogs too, it IS the softest part!  What a great idea to keep it in a locket.  :)  Bethany keeps saying she wants to dye her hair black and I just say "okay" secretly hoping she NEVER does!  Uggghh.  Sounds like Wee One is having a great weekend!  Lucky, lucky girl.  :)
Hugs and love,
Lisa

Anonymous said...

I think our girls are close to the same age (my oldest is 17) and she went through the hair color thing last year.  In the course of her Junior year she had green, blue, red and purple (I actually kind of liked the purple!)  Not her whole head, just some streaks in the front.  The deal was, she just had to have it back to her normal color by June, in time to have her Senior portrait taken.  She was fine with that and by the time June came around she said she was sick of all those crazy colors anyway.  I TOTALLY agree....you have to pick and choose your battles!  (Go Dr Phil!!)
Jeanne

Anonymous said...

What wonderful gifts in rememberance of Percy.  And the locket idea...I love that!  I wish I would have done that with Toby...
Glad things are getting a little back to normal....well as much as it can for now.  

*hugs*

Anonymous said...

Hi! I came back to see how you are.Its hard clearing Percys things away but it has to be done.The photos are lovely.Good luck to your Mum in her new home.

Anonymous said...

OH I so love the pic drawn I have a charcoal one of Pepper a friend of Tracys made me it is huges too. I posted it once in my jorunal its like 2 x 3 feet. OH you will always have wonderful memories. Girl  you got to post pics of your daughters hair. I know I agree pick your battles. I too wouldlet that one go. I have with Rachael before and its worth it. long as its not pink or green LOL what is cottage pie ?????????? I told Todd and The girls about your hubby crying over mowing after percy died and the poop pile Todd said WHIMP!!!!!!!! as he hid his face knowing he would do that same thing. We had a laugh over that a sweet laugh kidn not funny. I think its wonderful heleft such an imprint on you. Iwish I could come down there and take you for a day out or just sit and smell candles and do crafts with you. HUGS Love you sherry.

Anonymous said...

Sherry, it is so obvious that you are geniunely loved, and have such a rich life... full of family and friends who love and support you.  This is how God takes care of us in our darkest hours. It's amazing how your story has touched so many, and your cup has been overflowing with such kind words from so many people!

God love ya!
~Erin

Anonymous said...

What beautiful rememberances of Percy!  Thank you for sharing these.  I really like the photo frame.  That is a great idea to put a piece of his hair in a locket.  I can't wait to check out St. Augustine sometime.  Sorry to hear about the hair for Betsy... hopefully she will find a color she likes better.   Hope you are having a good weekend. Hugs,
Lisa    

Anonymous said...

Your right Mum...I don't like my hair...it's not dark enough....HA!  

*Violet* (Sister on Incredibles)

p.s.  Yes, I did like going out with you and Dad...it was really nice and I had a great time, and yes, I do love you...sheesh...

Anonymous said...

AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW I can not believe i feel the same way you do about percy and it wasnt even my dog lol. As i read your last journal entry and that great picture you put up there. As I can tell he was a great dog too all the members of the family, and its just as hard as losing a family member. I have lost a couple pets myself. I'm so sorry to hear about percy but I'm sure he is in a better place for him and still runnning around have the best times in the yard. Just keep him in your hearts and he will forever be with you.

Good luck and know I'm here for you too' Again I'm sorry to hear about Percy my heart goes out too all of you~ take care and much love your j-land friend Sara

Anonymous said...

betsy's friend is very talented...great drawing!

Tracie

Anonymous said...

I just finished helping my daughter (16) dye her hair "plum." It doesn't really look plum, though (she's bummed) - just darker brown than it already is and has a weird aura when she's out in the sunlight! I'm with you....pick your battles! She can dye her hair - just don't ask to get pierced or tatooed! LOL

Carol

Anonymous said...

I really like your journal. Please check out mine! http://journals.aol.com/mmrswebb/dirtylittlesecrets

Anonymous said...

I'm so glad your guys are feeling better. That drawing your daughters friend made is great. She did a wonderful job. That was very sweet of her too.
Your teen is going through the Hair color fase. Ah I remember that... Oh boy fun fun fun...
Take Care  :-)

Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry to here about Percy, I know what it's like to lose a pet. It's sad and it's especailly cruel and painful when they say the forbidden phrase. I hope you feel better about it all soon.
Love Sam xXx
http://journals.aol.co.uk/misscarberry/NoLongerSweetSixeen

Anonymous said...

Those are beautiful things you have in remembrance of Percy :)

Hugs,
Gretchen

Anonymous said...

Our pets are our children. People don't understand that it hurts us the same when we lose one of our "children". Peace be with you.


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