If you are looking for a cheerful entry this evening, I suggest looking elsewhere. What, you ask, has made this resident funny-lady so grumpy and, (*veiled vulgarity warning*) bi***y this evening? Nothing in particular. To borrow from Lemony Snicket, just a series of unfortunate events.
Last evening I had a doozy of an argument with my teen. Nothing horrible, just the usual teenage smart mouth, disrespect, moodiness, etc. (Oh no, not our ever-so-sweet Betsy!) The mood spilled over to today, and we had more "words" (full of UNveiled vulgarity....). Things have settled down a bit, although she is still quite wary when approaching me.
Dh went to the college to register for classes this afternoon. He was not happy to find that not alot of his classes are transferrable to a Business degree, and he will be starting with a three class load. Needless to say he is NOT thrilled. However, he knows that it will benefit us in the long run, and he isn't one to sit back and do nothing just because it's easier. He did, however, bark orders over my shoulder as I searched for classes that will be on the correct night and time....which did soooo much for my headache. One thing about my husband, he can be as mad as he-double hockey sticks for ten minutes, then come back into the room like nothing happened. He just did that, bringing me Tylenol and water....oh waiiiit a minute....he also just sweetly said to me, "Here are the the forms I need you to fill out for me sweetie," and plopped them on my desk. What a dear, dear man....
The family situation is beginning to break apart. You know how when someone hurts themselves, you have that "honeymoon" peroid, usually lasting about a week, when everyone is visiting, taking turns cooking and generally giving their all....well, the glow has faded and reality has set in. No one seems to have the time to run the errands, take turns cooking, drive to the doctor....I knew it would happen, but hoped it would at least take a few weeks. There is talk amongst the villagers that the injured one may have to move in with my mom, so that she can take care of her at night. Oh, yes, by all means. "Dog pile on Linda!!!!" *Grrrrrrrr.....
And last, but certainly not least in my evening rant, this award situation. By my calculations, if everyone who has said they voted for Wee one actually did.....she should have 50 votes or more by now. Seems the voting isn't working so well....not that it really matters anyway. Remember in high school when you voted for the "prettiest smile", "best personality, "class clown"....and all the nominees were the most popular people, and they all voted for each other? Don't get me wrong, each journal nominated is wonderful....it just seems like to make it fair perhaps you could only be in ONE category at a time....there are a lot of wonderful, interesting and unkown-to-most journals out there that deserve our attention! Of course, I realize that "we" were the ones who nominated them in the first place....so I really shouldn't complain. (And just in case anyone is wondering if this little rant is sour grapes on my part....it isn't. My run at #1 editor's pick was more than I had ever hoped for!)
Oooh, the Tylenol is beginning to kick in, and the vice has finally loosened it's grip on my temples. Sweet, sweet relief.....I think I will spend the evening relaxing and not thinking about anything. Which, in my case, should not be too hard.....
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{{{{Sherry}}}} Sorry you are having a bad day(s). Believe me, I know how that goes. If your DH is going to college shouldn't he be able to fill out his own forms? and find his own classes online?
Go take a warm bath with a drink of something and a good magazine . . . relax sweetie!
Hope your head is feeling better soon. Sorry to hear about the family situation. I really fear for your mother is granny has to move in with her. Really her son should step up. I have more to say so I'll email you...Chin up, sister.!!!!!
Poor Sherry and I can promise that not only did I give my vote to Wee-one, but I also had someone else with a computer vote for her ;)
Hopefully your headache will be gone by tomorrow. ~Melissa
I'm sorry you aren't feeling good and that you have the world on your shoulders. And boy do i know about those fights with teenagers. Hang in there kid. And I emailed ya too.
Oh I know its awful to fight with you teen I hate that. UGH It such a messed up day when that happens and you ahve ot be in the same house. we just got back from cmaping so I am catching up on journals and my family situation with my grandmother exploded today. Daddy came over here he was upset and we all are. My aunt that has power of attorney knows the nurse said not to mow. She was told a month ago not to take granny shopping yet. Two days later she did. Now shebrings granny gas in a can. KNowing she is not at all supppse to mow her yard. She has power of attorney we allknow what she is thinking she gets the money if Granny dies. But Granny does not understand that. Yes the family has that honey moon period and then they start to show them selves. I am so sorry. I wish I could make it better But I kn kow I cant. Lori
That's exactly what happened when my mom had her foot surgeries.With the first foot,she had all this help from my sister,and with the second foot,very very little help.Which in turn left all the respnsibilities to me.That is not fair to your mother,don't these people realize what your mother is going through with your father?She definitely does not need that extra stress.Someone needs to have a big talk with the uncle that's for sure.I'm thinking about you.Have a nice relaxing glass of wine.Nice graphic by the way.(((Sherry)))KIM
That's exactly what happened when my mom had her foot surgeries.With the first foot,she had all this help from my sister,and with the second foot,very very little help.Which in turn left all the respnsibilities to me.That is not fair to your mother,don't these people realize what your mother is going through with your father?She definitely does not need that extra stress.Someone needs to have a big talk with the uncle that's for sure.I'm thinking about you.Have a nice relaxing glass of wine.Nice graphic by the way.(((Sherry)))KIM
God love ya! What a day... Prayers continue to lift you and your family up from here in Indiana ;) I voted for you wee one today, I promise! She is a beautiful sweet girl, bless her little heart!
Praying you through,
Erin
I am trying not to even look at the voting stats, even though I just did and am disappointed, only 9% voted for me, that's I believe 9 people! Oh well, at least those 9 people voted for me because they actually like me right?! I know what you mean though about the voting seeming "not right". I don't think your mom needs anything else put upon her tiny shoulders right now, and I hope your family realizes this before they push her way over that edge she is hanging on to so precariously already!!! Hope you are feeling better soon and get some sleep tonight!
Hugs and love, Lisa
(((((Sherrie))))) Boy oh boy, you really have it ALL on your shoulders right now. I hope and pray that it will ease up soon.
I know I had some fights with my teens ... maybe time has dulled those memories?
As for the voting ... I've got some questions myself ~ especially in some catagories. None that I've been nomintated ... I'd be excited if any of the shutterbugs won as they are all good darn it!!!
Keep your chin up, this too shall pass. At least that's what I keep telling myself.
Monica
Oh dear! What a pile of woes. I think the voting is going ok as your Wee one was not in the lead when I voted & now she is. Although it's hard to tell if you've voted properly?
I don't know what to say about your family situation....it must be very hard. Could you help your mum to just say "No, I'm not doing it" & sit back & see if that forces anyone else to step up? Knowing families...I guess not...it just doesn't happen like that in real families. Best wishes...I hope things begin to resolve soon.
Teens and headaches seem to go together for some reason. I have a teen that sounds just like yours and I sympathise with you when they have 'stroppy' heads on!!
I am sorry that the help has died off. It's such a shame it does fade away like a novelty. Relatives are special and should have support when they need it. At least they have you, they are lucky :)
I looked at the voting and wondered if my vote had registered so tried again. The number of votes didn't increase. I am wondering if its because it registered first time and you can only vote once. I see she is doing good though, well done wee one :)............Jules xx
((sherry))
You've got ALOT going on and I hope your headache passes soon.
Teen....aren't they fun? haha
I'm sorry that the help is drifting away. I don't understand people sometimes, especially family when they say they will help and then find excuses. Been through that myself....
I'm not understanding the whole tallying of the vote myself, I guess somethings can't be explained?
Take it easy or try too and continued prayers.
51 because I voted and had told you yet...lol...Hope everything ius smoother for you tomorrow..I have had a day like that too this week...NOT FUN..
Jackie
I hope things can start looking up for you and your family soon. I know how rough it is all to well. I'm the one that always has to pick up what no one else will do or wants to do...
I voted for wee one!!
Try and have a better day, and try and relax as best as you can with everything that is on your plate right now. I will send continued prayers your way.
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