Thursday, September 15, 2005

Waiting for the Salvation Army....

As you can see from the above picture, wee one has decided not to continue with safety patrol. Here's the deal....

Progress reports came out and although she is doing well in all of her subjects, she had a "D" in math. Not because she doesn't understand it, but because they are doing timed multiplication tests for grades. So, in three minutes they have to answer 100 multiplication questions (no pressure there!), and if you don't finish....no matter how many you answer are correct (all of the ones she finishes are)....you are graded on the amount answered. The first few tests she took were not good....she had left 47 unanswered, then 32, and so on. The last test she took she only left 17 unanswered, so she got a B.

Being that membership in safety patrol is based on grades, when she got the progress report she was put on "probation". (along with many others) Last night she took me into the bedroom and explained why she wanted to quit. She said that she is so worried about getting a good grade, that she is having a hard time concentrating on the work. She said that her worrying has gotten worse and that her ocd is kicking into high gear. So, she has decided that instead of doing poorly in math, she would rather quit the patrol and work on her grades.

I was so proud of her. It's not that she wants to quit because it is hard, or because she doesn't like standing in the heat....she wants to quit so that her school work does not suffer. I asked her if she would wait it out until report cards come out, because she will surely bring the grade up....but she insists she wants to quit at the end of the month. I am asking her to think about it, but in the end, it will be her decision. I told her that whatever she decides, I will understand....

I am sitting here waiting for the Salvation Army guys to come and take away my dining room table and a love seat. I can't wait to be able to walk through my computer room without smacking my knee on things! LOL....I managed to come up with a few bags of clothes and toys as well. John will be happy, since two of those bags have been in my car for a while now.

It was sort of cool this morning when I took Betsy to the bus stop. I actually had the windows down. It was cool....but a "humid-cool". Not the fresh, crisp cool that I am longing for....but at this point I will take what I can get. I see that we are getting a cool front though....next week it is going to be a chilly 86! Better break out the sweaters! The strange thing is that the pool water is cooler than before. All summer it stays so warm that it is almost unrefreshing....but lately it's been on the cold side....which is a sign that the nights are getting somewhat cooler.

I am going to go finish my cleaning and pick the damn dog up off the kitchen floor....he has been laying there barking for 15 minutes. Now before I get a call from PETA, I need to say that he has been fed, watered and walked....he is just too lazy to get up on his own. If I had a steak next to me, he'd find a way to pick his butt up!

12 comments:

Anonymous said...

Bittersweet when the kids reach that 'grown up' stage.  Good for her for being decisive and considering her options. . . Good luck with Percy!  Cya, Kris

Anonymous said...

ah give wee one a hug from me nad tell her Im proud of her too. I could not take doing patrol myself and those timed tests are such a rip. I mean for someone with dyslexia like me who switches numbers I have ot look two or three times to see that I did not switch them. In fact I think that could be challenged to tell you the truth. its not how fast you can be its not typing!!!!!!!!! Its math. I can do multiplcation just fine but not fast due to my switching of numbers. and stress of timing makes it worse. awwwwww poor percy sure is lucky he has you. I bet you will miss him barking at you when his time comes. I know sooner had to behelped alot but i sitll miss him. its been three nadhalf years. Hey you know you might just get better gas milage with that junk outof your trunk lOL

Anonymous said...

Good for Haley for knowing she had to make a decision.It's too bad,but it sounds like she is really really worried about it.And  thats not good for her to be stressed like this.Hugs to her.KIM

Anonymous said...

give wee one a big hug and say well done for making a brave decision about giving up safety patrol. It must have been really hard for her but she made a good decision. Well done Hayley xxxxxxxx.....................Jules xxxxx
http://journals.aol.co.uk/jules19642001/Itsmylife/

Anonymous said...

Thanks for your comment this morning, hopefully today will be a snap compared to yesterday for me lol.  Aww you have 1 mature lil kiddo there mom, be proud!
We have been having crisper nights here in Texas but we probably wont feel the whole crisper refreshing days until novemeber or december I hope sooner.  Have a good day, take care.

Anonymous said...

I love her sign and her personality My oldest quits everything and she don't have ocd or worry. She just gets bored easily. I hope the SA pick up men are cute

Anonymous said...

You tell her that she really isn't quitting. She is suceeding in her future. Good for her!

Anonymous said...

Wee One sounds such a good  and conscientious student! It's great that she thought about her options and did what she felt she had to do. You must be proud of her!
Tilly x
http://journals.aol.co.uk/tillysweetchops/Adventuresofadesperatelyfathouse/

Anonymous said...

I can't understand why they feel the need to time a test in the first place.  Isn't it more important that they find out whether or not children know the answers no matter how long it takes them.  If they weren't told how long they have to do the test, she'd probably Ace it.  Too much pressure...too soon.  What a mature little note.  I'm sorry Wee One feels the need to give up safety patrol, escpecially if she really likes it.

Anonymous said...

Monica is very smart, but still panics at timed tests.  They are SO bogus.  Just let them do the work, quit making them do it faster and faster.  

Here, Autumn is upon us.  It will be 55 tonight, and the high today was about 75.  I had to run the heater on the way to work and the a/c on the way home, yesterday.  Good ol' Missouri.  I'll send thoughts of pumpkins and colorful leaves your way!

Anonymous said...

JB, I am so sorry that Wee One will have to quit patrol. But I too think that she is a very responsable girl for putting school first.
My youngest Zachary is 10 years old. He is autistic, and requires alot of help with school and homework.  Wee One is so lucky to have a carring MOM like you.
http://journals.aol.com/Hadonfield78/TheHadonfieldMyersExperience

Anonymous said...

aww I'm sorry that wee one is quitting safety patrol but it's a very grownup and responsible approach for her...especially at her age. Hugs for her!

Gretchen